بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم


أخلاق المسلم


كما أن الناس يختلفون في طباعهم وأشكالهم..

كذلك هم يختلفون في وجهات نظرهم.. وفي قناعاتهم وتصرفاتهم..

فإذا شعرت أن أحداً خالف الصواب.. ونصحته وحاولت إصلاح خطئه ولم يقتنع..

فلا تصنف اسمه من بين أعدائك.. وخذ الأمور بأريحية قدر المستطاع..

فلو حاولت إصلاح خطأ عند أحد زملائك فلم يستجب.. فلا تقلب الصداقة عداوة..

وإنما استمر في التلطف فلعله أن يبقى على خطئه ولا يزيد..

وقد قيل: حنانيك بعض الشر أهون من بعض..

إذا تعاملت مع الناس بهذه الأريحية..

فلم تغضب على كل صغيرة وكبيرة.. عشت سعيداً..

قالت عائشة -رضي الله عنها : ( ما انتقم رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم لنفسه قط..

وما ضرب شيئاً قط بيده.. ولا امرأة.. ولا خادماً.. إلا أن يجاهد في سبيل الله..

وما نيل منه شيء قط.. فينتقم من صاحبه.. إلا أن ينتهك شيء من محارم الله فينتقم لله ) ..

وحتى نفهم الفرق بين الغضبين: افرض أن ولدك الصغير جاءك ذات صباح

وطلب ريالاً أو ريالين مصروفاً للمدرسة.. فبحثت في محفظة نقودك..

فلم تجد إلا فئة الخمسمائة ريال.. فأعطيتها له..

وقلت: هذه خمسمائة ريال.. اصرف منها ريالين.. وأرجع الباقي..

وأكدت عليه وكررت.. فلما رجع بعد الظهر فإذا المال كله قد صرفه..

فماذا ستفعل؟.. وكيف سيكون غضبك.؟

قد تضرب وتعنف وتمنعه من مصروفه أياماً..

ولكن لو رجعت مرة من صلاة العصر ووجدته يلعب بالكمبيوتر..

أو عند التلفاز.. ولم يصل في المسجد.. فهل ستغضب كغضبك الأول؟

أظننا نتفق أن غضبنا الأول سيكون أشد وأطول وأكثر تأثيراً من غضبنا الثاني



بقلم :


د. محمد عبدالرحمن العريفي








In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful



Muslim's ethics



As people differ morally and physically

...also they differ in their points of view

,convictions and behaviours...

So if you felt that someone has done some thing wrong

and you advised him and tried to correct his fault but

he hasn't been convinced, never classify his name

between your enemies and take it comfortably as you can..

and if you tried to correct a fault of one of your colleagues

but he did not accept so do not volatile the relation

from friendship to enmity but still gentle with him

maybe he stops on this fault and does not indulges..

And as they said: your tenderness please

some evil is lesser than some....if you have dealt with

people with this comfortableness

and haven't got angry from every simple and great thing

you will live happy..

- Aisha reported that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him)


never beat anyone with his hand, neither a woman nor a servant,

but only, in the case when he had been fighting

for the sake of Allah and he never

took revenge for anything unless the violation of what Allah has forbidden;

he then took revenge for Allah, the Exalted and Glorious

so muhammad peace be upon him got angry, not for himself but for Allah

and to understand the difference between the two angers

suppose that your little son came for you someday and asked you one or two RS

as expense for school and you looked in your money wallet

but you did not find except the five hundred RS'category

so you gave it to him and said: this is five hundred RS, spend two RS

and give me back the rest

and you confirmed on him and repeated

but when he came home in the afternoon,

he told you that he spent all money

so what will you do and how would be your anger?

you might beat and use violence

and prevent him from his expense for days

but if you came home from the Asr prayer some day

and you found him playing on computer

or watching the television and he didn't his prayer at the mosque

Would your anger be as strong as your first anger?

I think we agree that our anger in the first case would be

be stronger and longer and more influential than the second case.



Written by:


D.Muhammad Abdul'Rahman Al Areefe.